Aziz Ansari puts it so well!
“If you believe that men and women have equal rights, if someone asks if you’re feminist, you have to say yes – because that is how words work. You can’t be like, ‘Oh yeah, I’m a doctor that primarily does diseases of the skin.’ Oh, so you’re a dermatologist? ‘
Oh no, that’s way too aggressive of a word! No no no not at all not at all.'”